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Aug 3, 2006 10:56:15 GMT -5
Post by Topaz on Aug 3, 2006 10:56:15 GMT -5
I wasn't thinking on asking much stuff. I didn't even want to begin this thread. I do need help on something though, and I thank you for bringing this over here. You know that great feeling when you finally get to talk with someone that you haven't heard from since forever? Well, I got to talk with one of my friends, it all started out nice, we kinda started catching up on what was happening in the other peoples lives. I mentioned that it would be kinda cool if we got together and hung out sometime. Well, they were totally rude and for some reason after that told me to never talk to them, and they didn't want to see my face ever again. They said that they had never once thought of me as a friend, just some annoying pessimistic person that they talked to, then ditched every chance they got. I already know if people will say stuff like that then yeah it isn't worth the fight, but somehow they tricked me into thinking I had a good friend. I hate losing friends, even ones that I may have never had. It just hurts, admin, you know how big of a people pleaser I am. Do you know how I can let this go so it won't hurt anymore? It is funny, I almost hate myself for asking this. A part of me wants to hurt and stay miserable.
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Aug 6, 2006 0:15:03 GMT -5
Post by Thius on Aug 6, 2006 0:15:03 GMT -5
. . . well I won't say anything I let the admin say first then I will mebbe build off of it . . .
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Aug 6, 2006 0:18:21 GMT -5
Post by Thius on Aug 6, 2006 0:18:21 GMT -5
Well as we wait for the admin. I will ask a question/ for advice...I always feel awkward at church and it really isn't enjoyable for me, but I really have a good testimony, Topaz should know he heard it... Yet I still don't want to go, I know its the right thing to do, but yeah, uncomfortable...
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Aug 6, 2006 2:56:16 GMT -5
Post by Topaz on Aug 6, 2006 2:56:16 GMT -5
I don't think the admin will be on for a week or two. I will try and help though. Admin, once you read this I think it would be good to throw in your two cents. You are good at this sort of thing. I am really not good at giving advice at all. Know this though, you are my brother and I love you. Our Father loves you. He misses you. I think you feeling awkward has to do with the other youth and leaders. They seem to give you a hard time because you don't go for a while. It makes me angry at their lashing out. If it would make you feel more comfortable I will do this much for you. I want you to come to sacrament, it is the most important thing that happens on Sunday's. To think for just a split second after we partake of the bread and water we are perfect. I love that feeling, to know for that short time every week I am like our Savior. After that if you want we can have our own little lesson at your house. Then we won't miss out on that either. That way, you can still feel comfortable, and you can still renew your covenants with the Lord. This won't be able to last forever, you will need to go sooner or later to the rest. Life is full of real hard challenges. I know that you are strong, you have a lot of courage. I know that you can overcome any challenge that comes your way. Sometimes you will need help, well guess what? Someone is always there waiting for the chance to help you. I don't think this really answered your question, but hopefully it will help you out anyway.
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Aug 7, 2006 2:57:48 GMT -5
Post by Thius on Aug 7, 2006 2:57:48 GMT -5
Wow, I think I heard a bit of Tyson in there he always talked like that and now you are this is awesome! You will be a great mishionaryrial dude! I don't know like over half the stories in there! So yeah...got to brush up...
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Aug 7, 2006 12:21:42 GMT -5
Post by Topaz on Aug 7, 2006 12:21:42 GMT -5
That is another reason you don't feel comfortable going to church. Read Alma 10:5.
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Aug 7, 2006 22:53:00 GMT -5
Post by Kate Valentine on Aug 7, 2006 22:53:00 GMT -5
Ah-ha! I'm here! Mwahahaha. Topaz (I still find that calling you this is awkward...lol), You need to realize that this isn't your fault. Then, you pray for the help and power of Heavenly Father to help you forgive and forget. Hit your scriptures! It always helps to get in tune with the spirit. As for Thius, I believe that your friend hit it on the dot. And Kam says he's not good at giving advice...tch. Anwho, I am still needing as much bedrest as I can get. *sigh* Talk to you guys in the near future!
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Aug 8, 2006 17:12:38 GMT -5
Post by Topaz on Aug 8, 2006 17:12:38 GMT -5
Top? That is like me calling you Aer or Tine. It just doesn't sound good. I don't care if you call me a name you like better, like my real name. As for the comment about not giving good advice. I followed my own advice once and got lost. Okay more than once. Kind of today I got lost trying to get home from your apartment. I tried following your dad's directions but kinda sorta just took my own way. (It takes around a half hour to get to your house by the way considering I got off on Bangadar, and I got lost too)
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Aug 9, 2006 16:12:58 GMT -5
Post by Thius on Aug 9, 2006 16:12:58 GMT -5
Whats Alma 10:5 say? Yes Kam do you mind if I call you Kam or are you going to start calling me Thi or something else wierd? Oh and you spelled Bangheder (i did too just don't know how to spell it.) But yeah bangheder is spelled wierd.
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Aug 9, 2006 16:59:35 GMT -5
Post by Topaz on Aug 9, 2006 16:59:35 GMT -5
Weird is spelt weird as well. It is true though, I don't know how to spell Bangader.
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Aug 9, 2006 20:16:59 GMT -5
Post by Thius on Aug 9, 2006 20:16:59 GMT -5
yeah cause I had to do the i before e except after c rule and still got it wrong...dang...
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Aug 10, 2006 0:07:47 GMT -5
Post by Topaz on Aug 10, 2006 0:07:47 GMT -5
Oh and if you want to know what that scripture says you have to read it
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Aug 10, 2006 1:05:48 GMT -5
Post by Thius on Aug 10, 2006 1:05:48 GMT -5
yeah I feared that well I'd better get started.
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Aug 10, 2006 13:56:58 GMT -5
Post by Topaz on Aug 10, 2006 13:56:58 GMT -5
I seem to be an un-ending book of questions, I have already emailed you about this question Tay and expect you to reply in that way. No this is one for the admin. I want something really badly, so badly I would do everything I could to get it. The problem is, the thing I want I have only about a 5% chance of getting, I will probably fail, but I want to keep on striving for it. If I get it I know the rest of my life will be a happy one, but the odds are against me, if I fail, I will be crushed so badly that my whole body will be spilling out grief that could easily consume me, and make me miserable knowing that I tried my hardest and I still didn't get it. With the odds and the outcomes known do you think I should continue to strive for it? The thought of failing by itself hurts, but would I be able to live with myself if I knew that I had the chance try and didn't? I don't know, this question alone though will be the hardest decision of my life for me to make, cause I could be striving for my goal for years, I know this as fact. I am even sorry for writing this all down, I want advice from you to know what you think, the decision will be mine alone though.
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Aug 11, 2006 2:51:51 GMT -5
Post by Thius on Aug 11, 2006 2:51:51 GMT -5
She won't be on for a while....
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